Don't Hide!
Collaboration is working with others to do a task and
to achieve shared goals. Collaboration
is a joint effort of multiple individuals or work groups to accomplish a task
or project.
"Gettin' good players is easy.
Gettin' 'em to play
together is the hard part."
- Casey Stengel(1)
Coming together is a beginning,
staying together is
progress,
and working together is success.
—Henry Ford(2)
Online, my name and email are listed on Family Tree
Family Search, Roberts Roots & Branches and on Frontier Miner No. 1
blog. I generally receive, on average, one
email a month from these various sources.
The correspondence varies from people wanting to know if we are related,
others wanting to add their own information, others wanting to exchange
documents or those wanting to collaborate.
Over the years, I have only had one person contact me who was rude and
ill mannered, everyone else has been gracious, kind and polite.
There have been a couple of times where people have
contacted me to “collaborate” and “solve” a dilemma in our family lines. I love these emails!
Collaborating and solving a problem in ancestor lines
gives me a wonderful opportunity to work with another researcher and share what
we have, research what we can find and surmise a solution. Working with others has given me an
opportunity to solve some curious connections.
One such connection was an obituary that listed two “nephews”. Further questioning with relatives stated
that yes we were related, but no one really knew how. I was contacted by email by a descendant from
the family of the two “nephews”. This
researcher was also told we were related, but he could not figure out how
either. We emailed for a couple of days
back and forth. His information and my
information combined along with further research lead us to the definite
conclusion that the relationship was “step-nephews”. The step part, or rather the second
marriages, was causing the great quandary.
Because of the other researcher’s extensive research on
the other side of the family, we were able to put together a missing piece of
the puzzle on both of our lines and connect through second marriages. So, why in the obituary were they listed as
“nephews”? Possibly because coming over
to the United States if you were remotely related in the “old” country, you
were closer related in the “new” country because you had fewer relatives over
here!
Successful cooperation in research leaves you wanting
more. It leaves you hoping for an email
or phone call wanting to figure out a solution and solve a family history
puzzle. So, if you are timid and unsure
about to leave your name and email on Family Tree or another website, just know
as far as my personal experience I have reaped so many rewards from being
visible and contactable!
sources:
Get Inspired With These 10 Collaboration Quotes, written by: Ronda Bowen•edited
by: Michele
McDonough•updated: 5/29/2013
(2)
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