An Undocumented Source
This is a personal story where I learned a valuable lesson.
I had been doing genealogy for several years when my husband passed away. Many expected things have changed because of Joe's death, but I am surprised about the unexpected way his death has affected my genealogy research.
The after day my husband was killed I vaguely remember sitting in the funeral home; I was lost in grief and shock as the funeral director began asking questions. After seveal questions I mumbled I wasn't sure then I asked him why he needed the information. He kindly explained it was for the death certificate. The genealogist in me snapped to attention and really concentrated on giving correct answers. . .after all, this was very important source documentation!
Funny, I first figured I would just write up the obit, because I wanted it to be a tribute and a good source of information; after all I had read many, so I felt like I kind of knew what a good obit should read like.
I couldn't do it I was in too much shock.
So my friend wrote the obit, while I was making arrangements and receiving condolences!
The headstone, was ordered four months after Joe died, by recalling information from memory.
Here's what I learned:
All of the information on the death certificate, in the obituary, and on the headstone was unsourced, from memory, while in shock.
Now, I scrutinize my sources and documents differently!
I had been doing genealogy for several years when my husband passed away. Many expected things have changed because of Joe's death, but I am surprised about the unexpected way his death has affected my genealogy research.
The after day my husband was killed I vaguely remember sitting in the funeral home; I was lost in grief and shock as the funeral director began asking questions. After seveal questions I mumbled I wasn't sure then I asked him why he needed the information. He kindly explained it was for the death certificate. The genealogist in me snapped to attention and really concentrated on giving correct answers. . .after all, this was very important source documentation!
Funny, I first figured I would just write up the obit, because I wanted it to be a tribute and a good source of information; after all I had read many, so I felt like I kind of knew what a good obit should read like.
I couldn't do it I was in too much shock.
So my friend wrote the obit, while I was making arrangements and receiving condolences!
The headstone, was ordered four months after Joe died, by recalling information from memory.
Here's what I learned:
All of the information on the death certificate, in the obituary, and on the headstone was unsourced, from memory, while in shock.
Now, I scrutinize my sources and documents differently!
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