I had been doing genealogy for several years when my husband passed away. Many expected things have changed because of this major life event, but I am surprised about the unexpected way that his death has affected my genealogy research. I remember lost in grief and shock and the funeral director asking questions. My answers were a mumbled I wasn't sure, but "to the best of my knowledge". I finally asked him why he needed the information. He explained it was for the death certificate. Being a genealogist, I snapped into reality and really concentrated on my answers...this was very important. This WAS a source! Later, the obituary was written by a friend. Funny, I figured I would just write up the obituary, because I wanted it to be a detailed one; I had read so many I felt like I kind of knew how a good obituary should read. But, I couldn't write it. I was in too much shock. So my friend wrote the obit, while I was making arran...